Therapist Informed

Transform conflict into connection.

The card game that helps couples communicate better, one conversation at a time.

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Therapist Informed Trauma Aware Consent Based
NÓS
Conflict
&
Truth
Intimacy
&
Depth
Conflict & Truth
What do you need from me when you feel angry?
Breathe, listen. If it feels safe, receive without reacting.
The Real Challenge

Most couples don't lack love.
They lack the right conversations.

You care deeply. But somewhere between busy days, unspoken feelings, and small misunderstandings, the distance grew. It's not about love. It's about knowing how to reach each other.

Miscommunication

Meaning gets lost between what you feel and what you say

Avoidance

Difficult topics stay buried until they become bigger

Emotional Distance

Small issues silently turn into walls between you

Category
Conflict
& Truth
Category
Sadness &
Reflection
Category
Repair &
Empathy
The Solution

NÓS gives you the words when they matter most.

NÓS (meaning "we") is a reflective card game designed to support emotional awareness, communication, and relational repair. It offers structured conversations that help partners slow down, listen differently, and reconnect with intention.

  • 70 guided questions across 7 emotional categories
  • Therapist-informed prompts for safe, meaningful dialogue
  • Built-in repair and grounding tools for when things feel intense
  • Consent-based framework — skip, pause, or stop at any point
Simple by Design

Three steps. That's all.

01

Draw a card

One partner draws a card and reads the question aloud. No preparation needed.

02

Share honestly

Speak from personal experience. The listener practices presence without interrupting.

03

Connect deeper

Reflect what you heard. Switch roles. There's no goal to resolve — only to understand.

7 Card Categories

Every conversation has a place.

Each category opens a different doorway into your relationship.

Conflict & Truth

Explore disagreements, triggers, and unmet needs

Sadness & Reflection

Invite vulnerability and emotional honesty

Intimacy & Depth

Explore emotional closeness and attachment

Repair & Empathy

Support reconnection after tension

Wild Insight

Invite perspective and self-awareness

Play & Appreciation

Restore lightness and warmth

The Fight Card

Interrupt escalation and restore safety

The Shift

From distance to depth.

Before

Avoiding difficult conversations
Reacting instead of listening
Feeling misunderstood
Emotional distance growing
Repeating the same arguments

After

Conversations that feel safe and real
Listening with presence and care
Feeling seen and validated
Emotional closeness deepening
Understanding the feelings underneath
What Couples Say

Real words. Real connection.

★★★★★

"This helped us talk about things we've been avoiding for years. Not in a heavy way — in a way that actually felt safe."

Sarah & James
★★★★★

"We thought we communicated well. These cards showed us how much deeper we could go. It changed everything."

Mia & Lucas
★★★★★

"The Fight Card alone was worth it. We finally have a way to pause instead of escalate. This should be in every home."

Priya & Tom
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The Story Behind NÓS

I created this because I needed it first.

NÓS was born from my own journey — years of self-work, therapy, and learning to build an intentional relationship. I realised the hardest part wasn't love. It was finding the right words in the moments that mattered most.

So I created a tool that gives couples the structure to have conversations that heal, connect, and transform. Not therapy. Not advice. Just the right questions, asked at the right time.

NÓS means "we" — because the relationship you want is always built together.

— The Founder
Choose Your Practice

Three ways to begin.

Start where it feels right — the card game alone, paired with the journal, or the full bundle for the deepest practice.

NÓS Card Game

The Right Love Game

For couples

70 reflective cards across 7 emotional categories. Built for safe, structured conversations.

  • 70 guided cards
  • 7 emotional categories
  • Therapist-informed
  • Includes the Fight Card
$49.00
NÓS Journal

Reflection Journal

Companion piece

A guided journal for couples to capture insights between sessions. Extends the practice into daily life.

  • Daily reflection prompts
  • Shared exercises for partners
  • Pattern tracking
  • Premium linen-bound finish
$50.00
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The Set
NÓS Bundle

The Full Bundle

Everything together

The card game, journal, and future add-ons together — the deepest practice we offer, at the best price.

  • Full NÓS Card Game (70 cards)
  • NÓS Reflection Journal
  • Free shipping anywhere in AU
  • First access to future add-ons
$89.00$99.00
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What's Inside

Everything you need. Nothing you don't.

70 Cards

Guided questions across 7 emotional categories

Rule Sheet

Clear instructions with core agreements

Relationship Tracker

Observe growth in emotional awareness

Premium Quality

Made with care and intention

$49.00
AUD · Free shipping over $75

Secure checkout · Ships from Australia

Common Questions

We understand the hesitation.

What if my partner isn't into this kind of thing?

NÓS doesn't feel like therapy or homework. It feels like a conversation you've been wanting to have. Most partners who are hesitant at first end up being the ones who want to keep playing.

Will it be awkward?

The first card might feel a little vulnerable — and that's the point. The game is designed to ease you in gently. By the second or third question, something shifts. You'll feel it.

Do we need any relationship experience?

No. NÓS works for couples at any stage — whether you've been together 3 months or 30 years. The questions meet you where you are. You can skip anything that doesn't feel right.

Is this a replacement for therapy?

NÓS is not therapy. It's a supportive tool that complements conscious relationship work. For situations involving abuse, coercive control, or crisis, professional support should take priority.

What if things get too intense during play?

NÓS is consent-based. Either player can skip a card, pause the game, ask for grounding, or end the session at any time. No explanation needed. The Fight Card also provides a structured way to de-escalate.

Start Here

The relationship you want is built through conversation.

Not someday. Not when things get worse. Now — while you still have the willingness to try.

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